“It’s the most wonderful time of the year!” So says the popular Christmas carol. But for many singles, the holiday season can be one of the loneliest times of the year.
If you are not in a relationship, you may long for someone’s hand to hold as you shop, ice skate, look at Christmas decorations or sit by a cozy fire. Or, you may live far from family and friends, and can’t afford to fly home this year. Most of your friends have already left to visit their families, and here you are.
Sure, there may be people bustling around you at the stores or coffee house. It’s some comfort to see others at holiday parties or church events. But something inside is still amiss. You long to have a deeper connection, positive and loving with someone of the opposite sex.
And yet, here it is: another Christmas alone.
Our mood can change when we change our perspective, and start feeding it words of truth and hope. I love the fact that we celebrate “God WITH us” which is what Emmanuel means. So in reality, you are never alone. The One that loves you most, The One who created you, God Almighty, is with you…right now…wherever you are reading this on the planet today.
You may be in
or France , Finland
or Brazil ,
but wherever you live, you are never out of the reach of God’s love for you. He
cares about you; he is your protector and provider. He listens. When you talk
to him in prayer, like you would speak with a friend, he hears it all—and sees
your needs. Boston, USA
This Christmas, give God the desires of your heart. Tell Him how you feel and what you need. Ask God to fill your loneliness with a heart of joy as you…
Seek to help others. Service brings your heart joy! Find one small thing you can do to help someone in need. Lucy’s advice to Charlie Brown still hold true today: help someone else and you feel good too.
Adopt a pet. Many homeless dogs and cats need love and attention.
Call a friend or family member. Be the one to reach out and connect—you may just be surprised.
Get out of the house. Sometimes you simply need to be around other people and not just “virtual” connections on social media. We need face time with others!
Pray. Talk to God. You don’t have to use big words or long sentences. Just talk in a real way, in a heartfelt way….and He will listen. God always answers prayers. We just don’t know how or when. The answer may be yes, no or wait. But know that God wants the best for you!
So, to all my readers—single or married, young or seasoned, around the block or across the globe…
I wish you a very Merry Christmas and new hope for this bright new year!
Jackie M. Johnson